Happy Dozen Years Baby!

by This is Carrie on August 24, 2008

first posted here three years ago.

So I Married and Intellectual

I didn’t really know it at the time. When we met, he was well disguised as a dirtbike racing, country music fan that was six months off his mission. He was on the five-year undergrad plan because of his indecision on a major and a wasted semester at Weber State that left his transcript with a few “F”’s and “Incompletes”. I, on the other hand, was on the three year undergrad plan. From my Freshman year of high school, I knew I wanted to be a Fashion Designer. So I packed my classes in, eager to get all the G.E.’s out of the way so I could concentrate on what I loved and then enter the real world ASAP.

The two things that made me first notice him in that BYU country dance class were
1. He laughed at my sarcastic, under-my-breath comments and
2. He wore these horrible American flag Converse hi-tops (even now, when Converse is actually making a comeback, these shoes would be considered an abomination).

And while I am sure most people can understand the initial attractiveness of #1, for a fashion design major, #2 could be seen as the ultimate deal breaker. But for me it wasn’t. It was totally endearing. I loved that he wasn’t afraid to make a fashion statement amid the sea of brown braided belts, plaid button-up shirts and Dr. Martens (though a totally misguided statement it was).

So fast forward a bit– I graduated with a degree in Fashion Design, got rid of those American flag Converse shoes at a family white elephant gift exchange, and ended up married to a guy with an academic pedigree similar to everyone else on the T&S blog (philosophy undergrad, ivy league graduate degree– in law nonetheless). And the longer we have been married the more I have come to realize the wide divide between our academic interests. He is now an appellate Lawyer and I am a Fashion Designer. It seems our worlds are in two different universes yet we make such a great team. We have learned to appreciate each others talents while becoming each others “biggest fan”.

The way we approach the gospel is also very different. He is very logical. I am very emotional. He spends a lot of time wondering about how to balance God’s foreknowledge with the doctrine of prayer. I don’t. But, I think that we have been able to learn and grow from each other’s strengths because they are our weaknesses.

This last post of mine on T&S doesn’t really have a good point. I guess you could just call it a love story. I love it how people can be so different in opinions, in dress, and in the gospel. I hope we can all learn from and value our differences and not count anyone out because they might choose to wear American Flag Converse shoes — or make an illogical argument.

I love you Honey.


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Kage August 24, 2008 at 11:26 am

Congrats. I have never seen that photo before, and I think 12 years later, it’s safe to say you guys would have worn something completely different today on your wedding day…or at least Todd anyway ; )…..as is the case with our wedding as well, only, 1 year later we would have changed the whole thing….not 12….


Chelsey August 24, 2008 at 4:34 pm

Loved reading the story. Happy anniversary!


Jen August 25, 2008 at 2:21 am

I love what you wrote….glad you posted it again….some things are too good to only post once …..congrats on your anniversary!


Kathi D August 25, 2008 at 7:16 pm

Psst to the dh: I know where you can get a pair of those flag Converse (besides from MY closet, I mean).


Carolyn August 25, 2008 at 11:27 pm

I didn’t realize you were Mormon too. I love reading your blog. Congratulations on 12 years!


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